Recently, Bill told his dad that home is not the physical place where you happen to live, but rather the place where you are when you are with the people you love. I learned from a previous visit to Roma that my love for the city is not solely with the city, but with the friends we find there upon visiting the city. While I have posted many pretty pictures of the places I love, they would not be the places I love quite so much if it were not for our friends whom we find there when we visit. That said, let me introduce you to the people who this year made my visit to Europe so special.
First of all is David, our Yarnton (Oxford), housemate. We did not know him from Adam, but before we had met him he expressed his concern over Bill's mother's health. He is a most excellent housemate, cheery, interesting, and has assumed the role of garbage fairy. (Bill is the dish-washer fairy.) In both instances, the garbage and dirty dishes seemed to resolve their own issues without my intervention. (For the books, I'm the laundry and ironing fairy, but only for Bill.) David is married with a wife and an adorable 5-year old son, Alexander. In addition to his pleasant attitude, his high-Church breeding as a Lutheran makes him an ideal housemate for Bill during this NEH Institute on the Jews in the Middle Ages!

This is Sarah. She was one of Bill's recruits to the Rome Center in 2005 and was our companion in Barcelona once the semester ended. She is an honors English major studying at Cambridge this summer.

Next is Virginia. She is one of the Scoobies about whom you've heard me talk on prior occasions. The most notable thing about Virginia is that when she needed an "aged female specimen" for her brain imaging study, I fit the requirements. She is an Australian M.D. (or medic) who is now getting her Ph.D. in brain imaging. Although she must be pretty smart to have gotten an M.D. and now a Ph.D.
at Cambridge, she's a very fun person who is happy explaining the real meaning of "Waltzing Matilda." She's also the one who alerted me (and rightly so) to the grumpy nature of the British Air personnel.

Now the next encounter was a total surprise. While in Cambridge, Bill and I went to the Wolfson lounge to meet Virginia. The World Cup happened to be on TV. When the game was over, Emily turned and saw us. Emily is one of Bill's colleagues at the UA in the English department. She came several years ago for a Cambridge year just like Bill had had.

Next we met up with Simone, another one of the Scoobies. Here she is with her adorable boyfriend, Chris. Bill and I both approve! Simone is going to start a Ph.D. at Bristol in dance history. (I hope I got that right.) They will be living on their new houseboat in the fall.

One evening in London we met up with Terry, Anna, Siri, and Nancy. (Nancy is the little dog, but because of my aversion to using flash and her penchant for moving about, I never really got a good picture of her.)
Siri is absolutely precious. I don't recall ever seeing a 10-month old drink from a cup, but she does. And she eats curry, too. Anna and Terry are wonderful parents. Terry sang a little ditty he had made up for her, and Anna sang a Swedish song. Incidentally, Anna has a wonderful voice.
I was so taken with Siri's sweet disposition that I took lots of pictures of her during dinner.
Here are Terry and Siri.
Here's a picture of Kikka and me. There will be more about Kikka and her family in an upcoming blog. This shot was taken about midnight on my last evening in Roma. Kikka is such a dear. She has only her thesis to write and defend before she graduates with her degree in architecture from Roma Tre. She also spent a semester at the UA School of Architecure. We were
very hot when this picture was taken.

Here's Kikka's mom, Alessandra, and me. I spent a day with Alessandra at the MAXXI and then at Ikea. She is an exceptionally patient woman, especially with my Italian. I think Kikka has inherited her mother's artistic talent, as well.
Here are Alessandra and her husband, Fabio. Again, I will be telling you more about the Comellini's in an upcoming blog. Like, Alessandra, Fabio is a most pleasant fellow. It's surprising that he is a professional bomb detonator for the Italian military (actually, he now supervises those who do the risky work)!
This is Riccardo, Kikka's fiance. He understands English quite well but is rather quiet. Thanks to him, I understand "Vivo per Lei" now.
This is Kikka's sister, Fabiana. She gave up her bedroom for me, a near stranger! She may go to university next year to study kinesiology. The most unique thing about Fabiana is that her pronunciation of an American "r" as in "red" is perfect.
Here is Riccardo again.
One evening we went to Riccardo's family's home for dinner. His father took me in and said that their house was my house. His mom was a delight. One of his sisters is in NYC now on an internship with the Human Rights Watch. This is his neice, Mathilda, who is absolutely precious.
Here I am at the Rome Center with Janice at the computer in her all-white office. She handles a lot of the arrangements for the classes. I first met her here in Fayetteville.
Here's a picture of Davide (left) and Francesco (right) at the Rome Center. Davide offered to carry my suitcase down to the ground floor when I left. I don't think he expected it would weigh as much as it did or that I would have been able to carry it to the piano nobile by myself in the first place! Well, I surprised him! Davide and Francesco were my studio professors for the project you saw on my last blog.

This is Diane, Davide's wife. This was a totally unexpected visit. I had asked Kikka if she could recommend any additional modern art museums. She told me about the MACRO which wasn't very far from Diane's atelier. I knew it was pretty close because, unlike Bill, I generally formulate pretty accurate cognitive maps. Of course, if you can fine tune a cognitive map with an iPhone map, all the better. The MACRO is just about 5 minutes away from her studio, so I decided to drop in and pay her a surprise visit. If only I had had the language skills to explain that I was "dropping by." You see, Diane speaks French, Italian, and Spanish. I don't speak Spanish and butcher the other two languages. Nevertheless, she was very patient with my Fritaliano.
On my last night in Roma, I met Barbara, Luca, and their new son, Mattia (as well as their dog, Balu). Barbara is the Italian teacher at the Rome Center. Mattia was so sweet on this very hot evening, he just slept and slept.
Here he is.
And an inadvertent shot with the flash. Fortunately, I didn't wake him up! He's still sleeping.
And here's Balu.
Unfortunately, I didn't get a chance to meet up with Ryan, another Scoobie and our intrepid Antarctic explorer, or with Sarah, Bill's former graduate student. However, Bill and David did meet Sarah today at Stratford-on-Avon. Sadly, too, I missed Emilio, the art historian professor at the Rome Center. I made the mistake of assuming that he was with Carolina and the kids at the sea (that week was so hot that everyone who could was escaping the city for the sea). I only learned hours before I left that he was in Roma. I'm sorry I missed you, Emilio!
As you can see, I have quite a few reasons to consider Europe a second home. Everybody is so kind and patient. Thank you all for making my trip to Europe this summer so special.
Of course, the person who made my trip to Europe seem like I was home was Bill, even here on a Padova bench waiting for the bus to take us to the Venice airport.